Have you ever been in love?........ Ooops! Dumb question. Lol. This morning I was just thinking about love and all of its beautiful attributes and of course its downsides too. My mind panned around recollecting different love stories I had seen or heard at different intervals both real and fiction and I couldn't help but smile.
I remembered a few stories where either parties were so in love they saw each other as angels and all of a sudden they cant see eye to eye...... What happened here? We usually ascribe to our loved ones attributes they don't have just because we are in love and blind. This is very common in new cuts (first and second time lovers) but not limited to them. You know that feeling you get that just makes your brain docile and your heart and feelings take the wheel. Its not a bad thing but if you intend for the excitement to last for long, you should endeavor to be real to yourself and see things as they are. Sometimes we fall in love with the most arrogant people and everybody but you says he/she is a jerk, the right thing is to consider what is being said, I'm not saying you should condemn your lover but it will pay to note their downside should you have to get a taste of it. Its sometimes painful but the heart loves who it loves.
With this being said, open your eyes as well as your heart when falling in love.
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