Dear Future Wife

Dear Future Wife,

I have been longing to write you this letter……Smiles.  I have carried these words in me every day for so long and it seems my cup is overflowing today and I just have to pour them out

Let me start by saying I miss you so much, though in advance, I have fantasied severally about staring into your eyes for hours saying nothing in word but volumes in smiles and eye contacts.

I have archived the events of my life in a chronological order for you to easily know where I have been and what I have done so that it would be easy for you to accompany me on this journey for two. I must let you know that even as I have been on this journey alone, I have had good times, bad times, ups and downs but I have never let anything happen to your place in destiny.

I have imagined the experiences you have been exposed to in your own journey, what your mum would have told you about me…………. What your brothers would have said concerning how they would make me pay heavily for their priceless jewel… Smiles.

I have stayed up countless nights planning our wedding, talked to friends about how the ceremony would be. I have even argued with my mum severally about how simple I wanted it to be and she would say I know she has participated in a lot of peoples’ social engagements and by that reason they will all like to pay her back in kind by honoring her loving son’s wedding.

I have secretly been asking my brother who is married about how he runs his home… I am very close to his family and I see him and his wife still have time for their private jokes which elude me most times despite the two highly active and loving kids they have. His counsel is my best kept secret.

I have taken time to drop all childish behaviors of mine and firmed up in anticipation for our life together because I don’t want to give you any reason to doubt knowing fully well that you have equally be preparing for the same phase of our lives.

I sit back sometimes and run through all the women I have ever been in contact with the hope that I would instinctively pick you out of the lot but it’s been futile. None the less I know your God given traits.

You are a strong woman, a woman of class; you speak the right words and act as occasion demands. You are led by the spirit of God, I know you carry in you all that you need to support our dreams and you are a loving mother, an adorable wife. You are beautiful, you are meek, you are obedient and you are kind.

You are the arranged woman by God to be my life dependable partner.

I can’t tell specifically how long your hair is neither can I tell you physical make up. I want you to know that I adore you already just the way you are. I have loved you since the day I conceived these words and I will love you till my dying days. I will support you as your friend and as your husband. I will stand in the gap as your father when needed. I will be the priest and prophet over our home and make sure that no evil comes near our dwelling.

I will teach our son to play soccer and our girls to sing, I will change their dippers and rock them to bed and I will sit with you to take out your Brazilian weave in the middle of the night while we watch a romantic movie. I will shower you with gifts and affection all the days of my life.

I will never know another woman but you and I will be the man you always want to come home to. I will care for your mother and father even as you care for my mother. I will honor and respect your family.

After writing these word, all I can say is I miss you more. I have picked out our wedding day, I have also picked out a few venues and I can only wait for you to agree with me in all of these.

I love you so much darling.........…… Till we meet to part no more.

Inspired by love